How old should a person be before they get married? At what age should I get married? Is it right or wrong to get married at younger or older age? This is always the question that almost every young girl asks herself. It is a dream of every girl to have this ideal wedding she must’ve been planning for herself since she was a teenager. However, some girls would want to first pursue a career and have a life of their own before getting married.

 

Whether young or old, whether getting married at an old age or at a young age, they all comes with different advantages and for the lack of better choice of word, I would say privileges.

In a what seemed to be a controversial post, a facebook user tried as much as possible to advice younger generations on why the girls should get married at most at the age of 24yrs and the guys at most at the age of 28 years. In his own words, he wrote;

DEAR YOUNG LADIES OF 24YEARS AND ABOVE AND MEN AT THE AGE OF 28YEARS AND ABOVE
Don’t make mistakes some of our Fathers or elder brothers made. Marry now with the little you have, don’t wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: When I was 25, I was talking about making billions before I marry. Many years later, billions didn’t come, yet no kid, no wife… I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can I really take care of her? But right now She’s married with four grown up children. The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together.

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So please if you can feed yourself, you can, feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don’t wait. Stay away from abortion. Don’t make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families.. Trust me it isn’t money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. with a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it isn’t money, What is our problem? Build mansion? buy the latest Car in Town? marry Sharon stone type? but still we don’t have those things we dreamt of and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them never!!! Please don’t be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20’s..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father. Please young men, take my advice seriously.

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Marry, don’t be afraid, that girl/man you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well. Don’t think you will get every thing before you settle down. With a good determination and focus with your wife/husband by your side, we will succeed by God’s grace….Amen.  He ended by sating clearly that THIS IS JUST AN OPINION. IT MAY NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.